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Out of all the topics to discuss in mental health, I have to say…suicide is one of those topics is hard to discuss. There’s not an easy way to talk about it, because society has always frowned upon it. This is unfortunate, because when this happens we don’t know, for example (as the pictures below states) how to support someone who is suicidal. So how do you do you that? I posted below three pictures from the non-profit, “Wayfinders”, that discuss not only how to support a loved one who may plan to die by suicide, but subtle warning signs, and the number to the national suicide hotline.
If would like more information on “Waymakers” click on the link below:
When I would walk across a high school campus to get to another class I had to teach as a student-teacher in the spring this year, every now and then I’d hear a student—usually when it’s an assignment that requires them to actually work or their teacher moved them to the front of the classroom—say “Man…I wanna kill myself!” The hell??? Is that how kids express themselves now days??? Whatever happened to saying, “This sucks?” or “This blows?” or “Aw, man?” Heck…I’d EVEN accept, “This sucks monkey balls”!
It was hard during that time to know if a kid really WAS on the verge on having suicide or not. But then again—like with mental illnesses in general—people who on the verge of suicide usually DON’T usually say I’m—in a sense— “in a really bad mood.” According to an article by PsychCentral titled, “Common Signs of Someone Who May Be Suicidal“, 70% of people who commit suicide tell someone about their plans, or give other type of warning signs. But then again…there’s no right or wrong way to go through a mental illness, right?
I once was able to talk the school principal about it. He told me regardless if a student says it, to still keep an eye on them. But then how could you when kids now say as part of an everyday conversation? The next day, I had a discussion with a student for saying “I wanna kill myself” because of an math assignment he forgot to turn in. Saying this as if he isn’t ACTUALLY going to commit suicide, I told him not to say those words, because it makes people very concerned. And that suicide is a very important issue because it’s discussion not be taken lightly, because I knew a friend who had a relative die by suicide. He got quiet after that.
*Sigh* It’s sad that while there’s still a big stigma around mental illness, there is still little to no understanding about it. I mean c’mon there’s…
- “I feel like I’m so OCD because I keep washing my hands.”
- “I’m so depressed about (I don’t know) what’s happening between Khloé and Tristan.”
We can’t control how people react to things because it’s their feelings, their view, their experience. But we can educate people on what mental illness is and what to do if either themselves or their loved ones are going through it. Better yet, help people find more positive ways to express themselves in the goings and comings of their life.
So I have a question for YOU…was it wrong of me to tell the kid NOT to say “I wanna kill myself” or should I have given him the benefit of a doubt?
I saw the picture on my Instagram’s thread and I thought this was important to share and reflect on as this year ends and the new one begins. I do hope the attitudes of the following topics will change for the better.